One of the most satisfying feelings I know... comes from my appreciating this individual in the same way that I appreciate a sunset... When I look at a sunset...I don't find myself saying, "Soften the orange a little more on the right hand corner, and put a bit more purple along the base, and use a little more pink in the cloud color." I don't do that. I don't try to control a sunset. I watch it with awe as it unfolds.